So, I was talking with a guy friend of mine the other day. While we were talking, I was asked a question that was something like this: "Do you find yourself thinking a lot about marriage and loving someone so much you would marry them?" This coming from a guy, I was thrown off. I hadn't been expecting that, but I told him that I did. Quite a bit. I don't know if everything I told him was of any help to him....but to be honest, it felt nice to be able to talk about this kind of thing with a guy. It shows me that guys think about this just as much as girls do.
Waiting is tough. I think everyone knows this. But it's one thing to know this and another thing to have to go through the waiting process. I know for me, it's a hard thing. Being at Bryan, I have very many amazing, godly guy friends, and it can be a struggle to see them as just friends sometimes. So far, I think I've done very good with this. I don't have a "crush" on anyone. They are all my amazing guy friends who I love like brothers in Christ, and right now, that is enough for me.
It can be hard, though, to comprehend what it will be like when I find my prince, or even better, when my prince finds me. How hard it can be to think that someone will love me for me, and will love me so much that they will want to spend the rest of their life with me. It seems so strange, but yet, hopefully, if it's in God's plans for me, I will have the person in my life.
This post is kind of short, but I just felt like posting my thoughts about this. Knowing that my guy friends think about this kind of thing too makes me feel a little less girly (which I like.....can't stand feeling so girly sometimes :P lolz). Well, that's all for now. Hopefully, I'll write again soon.
"We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love." -Dr. Seuss
~Katherine Grace~
